Elsie M. McGaffney
- Apr 9, 2020
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 13, 2020
03/23/1923 - 04/08/2020

Elsie Mc Gaffney Her kindness, faith and boundless love will be missed Elsie Mc Gaffney of New Hyde Park, N.Y., passed away peacefully at home on April 8th, 2020, at the age of 97 years old. Elsie was born in Manhattan, N.Y. and raised in Brooklyn, N.Y., and was a longtime resident of New Hyde Park, N.Y. Elsie was the daughter of Andrew and Theresa Ruppert. She had one sibling, Marie Foster, who predeceased her, and leaves behind her other sister, Helen Kammerer. Elsie was a loving wife for 50 years to Gilbert J. Mc Gaffney, who predeceased her in 2001. She was a loving mother to her daughter, Sister Margaret M. Mc Gaffney, a member of the School Sisters of Notre Dame, who predeceased her in 2015 and her son Michael, who cared for her until her death. Elsie, a resident of New Hyde Park for almost 70 years, was a fixture in the life of its community. With her husband Gil, they were active in town organizations, charities and government. Gil was especially active in the Notre Dame Roman Catholic Church. He was one of its first Ordained Deacons serving from the early 1980’s until his death. Elsie was active at Notre Dame for over 50 years in many roles, including the organization and scheduling of Baptisms. One of her greatest joys was knitting individual blankets for each of the children who entered the Catholic faith with her help. Later in life, Elsie also became an important supporter of School Sisters of Notre Dame in Wilton Conn. adding greatly to their community. A Christian Burial will take place at Holy Rood Cemetery on April 16th. When it becomes possible, a Funeral Mass will be held at Notre Dame Church.

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Elsie McGaffney touched so many lives in a gentle and loving way. I first met her as I was preparing to become a Eucharistic Minister at Notre Dame. She was a beautiful lady and will be greatly missed. She is together with her late husband, Deacon Gil and her late daughter, Sr. Margaret. Rest in peace. Linda & Joe Zgombic
Elsie McGaffney was our Saint with her love & devotion for all our parishioners young & old and now is our Angel to watch over us during this difficult time. She blessed all of us. When my children were little I reached out to her to give information to the new parents who's new baby were to receive the Baptism Sacrament about our new program "Moms & Tots" that Sister Alice Reichmeider, Social Ministry, Eileen Mediavillo and I were about to offer to our Norte Dame families. She was a great help in making "Moms & Tots" the success that it became for over 25 years. Our Lord has called her and Gil to be in heaven both in o…
We have fond memories of visiting with Elsie in her home. She was a wonderful person and she gave so much back to her community. She will be missed. Rest in peace.
Elsie was a wonderful contributor to NHP and to Notre Dame. She should also be sainted for putting up with so many McCormacks in her life. My Mom Eileen sends her a warm and heartfelt sendoff and I am sure my Dad, John, will be there to greet her at the heavenly gates. Wonderful, kind, devoted lady, Rest In Peace.
Tim McCormack
Tappan, NY